Something I learned doing this for a living
Every day it's something new and weird.
Just a little something to take the edge off. I’m opening up comments to all on this one. I’ll be posting more quick anecdotes like this for my paid followers here and there. These are not random thoughts but things I see every day, several times a day in each reading I do over the last 10 years.
I’ve been reading longer but it’s so much a part of me I didn’t pay attention for most of my life. Here’s just one of the things that it quite clear in readings.
(A bunch of my people on the other side. My great grandfather with some of my uncles and aunts in front of his salon. My cousins will debate me on the year and location—def NYC— but you get the idea.)
When you die you get to see all the people who you hold space with that you never realized. You know those people out there that you hold great connection with even though you may not know them well or haven’t gotten much time with them? Whatever time you did get with them you held in your heart? No wedding invites or anything like that but there’s something. A fondness. A “soft spot for”.
When it’s your time to pass over you get to see those that have that for you and you get to be part of their council. An extra ancestor. Another angel, if that’s your language. So it’s not so weird when you think of someone more significantly when someone distant passes. You met in this life briefly but you may have had something huge in another life. Actually your seemingly shorter time together in this one is still huge. They can now be present for you in unlimited ways. Your story together grows. Your connection no longer has definition. They can be of service to you by bearing witness and supporting you—-constantly reminding you of magic. And you are there for them. Keeping them busy, making them laugh, allowing them to bring richness to your life without the boundaries of earth bound humanity.
It works both ways. Say hello to those people. Ask them for what you need help with. Think of what they were good at when they were still on earth and utilize that talent. Know that when you pass, you’ll be able to do that for others.